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Obnoxious Extreme Ratchet Behavior Exposed……Oscar-winning actress Mo’Nique is offering up some interesting marriage advice in a new interview with True Exclusives. Not long ago and still the world was in an uproar about the definition of marriage. It seems that some said it was union between a man and a woman, but it seems that it may be a union between a man and a woman and other men and women as the couple sees fit. Now Mo’Nique try’s to justify and make excuses for Sidney to step out on her as long as she knows about it. Now more often then not in these ridiculous open marriages it is the man that gets his cake and it too. Usually it is the woman giving her husband a pass to cut out, but not the same for the woman. In pass interviewes Obnoxious Media discovered that most times the men only allowed the women to have sex with another person as long as they were having a threesome. Also this open marriage touches on sex and sexuality in a real way. Most men do not take issue with their wife having sexual encounters with other women, but if it is a man that tends to be a whole different conversation.
What is the point in being married if you are not going to forsake all others? I am sick and tired of this anything goes modern society. These people are entering mutually beneficial business deals and not true marriage. It is interesting that Mo’Nique did not mention that she is married and in a open relationship with a known bi-sexual man. Now she did touch on that he may want things she is not willing to do, but she did not say that Sidney desires something she cannot provide time to time. The bottom line is open marriages and relationships benefits the man in most cases rather he is straight or bi. Ladies do not reduce yourself and settle for anything. We love Mo’Nique, but she is know to have self-esteem issues that are result of being molested as a child by her older brother. She has tried to rationalize and justify settling to make up for feeling of being inadequate.
In the article, the twice-married actress and comedian talks about giving her husband a “pass” sleep with other people. Mo’Nique says that while couples should “live by” their marital vows, she also added “people cheat because of something they’re not getting.” The solution? A “pass to cheat.”
Because — as Mo’Nique explains it — if couples have “open and honest conversations” with their partner, it’s OK to go ahead and cheat. Especially if the person your partner wants to cheat with will do something that you won’t do.
“What is it about that person that you find that you wanna sleep with? Because they may give you something that I’m simply not willing to do,” said the actress to True Exclusives. “And if that’s the case, how can I be mad? Because I’m not gon’ do it. Should I deprive you of not having it? That’s when the relationship is real real.”
Mo’Nique has been married to her husband, actor and producer Sidney Hicks, since 2006. They have two children together.
While the comments might seem shocking this isn’t the first time the actress has discussed her open marriage.
“Could I have sex outside of my marriage with Sidney? Yes. Could Sid have sex outside of his marriage with me? Yes. That’s not a deal breaker,” said Mo’Nique in a 2010 interview with Barbara Walters. “That’s not something that we would say, ‘Oh my God because you were attracted to another person and because you happened to have sex let’s end the marriage.”
Women are so hard up to be with a man the will be willing to allow him to sleep with other women and possibly men to just say I got a man. Well what woman wants to enter events and know her husband has been with other men and women at the same function. When a man really loves a woman all this foolishness does not even enter the equation!
To each their own, right?
